It has been a crazy fe
w months for so many of us. We need seat belts for all the changes and hard hats to avoid all the things flying around energetically (and even physically with the latest Nor’easter!) Staying in the moment we’re in, living simply, being and spreading love in gratitude and most importantly asking for help from our Creator and Spirit World Helpers when it feels too much is my current life preserver to keep my head and heart above water.
Many of you know that my dad died a month ago unexpectedly after surgery. I am glad for him that his suffering is over and he is finally with my brother and all those he loved. I was blessed with 51 years with him but it is still not long enough. I have received so many signs from him that make me smile and even laugh through the tears. They remind me what I already know that he is just as alive as ever but in the most wonderful, peaceful place there is. There is no escape from the darkness and pain that takes over in unexpected waves and knocks the air out of your chest though. Today has been one of those days.
I am noticing that maybe the gift amidst the pain is that it seems to slow your life down to a more manageable pace and makes everything feel crystal clear. What was so important doesn’t matter at all now. I find myself noticing the BS that others are still concerned with and want to tell them not to let it waste space in their minds and day. But I was them a short time ago. It’s like a bright light in my brain with a sign illuminating, “Life is short and precious, live, love and don’t waste any of it.” Why does it take heartbreak to make our priorities so obvious? And why does this clarity seem unattainable in the long term? Who knows… definitely not me.
If you are in the midst of grief with me, I am sending you so much love. We got this… one moment at a time, moving one foot in front of the other. If you are in the space in between loss, hug your parents, siblings, kids, pets, friends or even strangers and think about what really matters today. It isn’t the stuff or things we do that waste our time and create chaos. It’s the people in front of us or over the phone. It’s taking slow deep breaths and feeling the sunshine on our face. It’s being present in this moment, right here and right now, which is all we ever really have.
Thank you all for walking with me on this beautiful, awe inspiring, difficult at times, but love filled life as a human. As always, you, those we love and those that are hard for us to love are in my thoughts and prayers for blessings of peace, good health, JOY, comfort and abundance in all its forms. If I can help, I am here.
love, Love, LOVE you with all my heart and soul,
Jackie xoxo
Thank you Jackie….needed this today! xo, Mel
Dear Jackie,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. My heart goes out to you. I send my prayers and blessings to you and your family at this difficult time in your lives.
With love,
Barbara
This is one of the best blogs I have read in a while Jackie. Thank you, I needed this. A good reminder of what is really important.
Jackie,
I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong! I am sending you positive healing vibes.
I am so sorry for your loss Jackie. I have found that sometimes it takes that grief or shock or crisis to ‘wake’ us up from this thing called life. It is true to not sweat the small stuff. It is true that every moment with loved ones and every breath is more important than anything. I realized that too when I got cancer and thankfully am now cancer free for 3 years. Looking forward to meeting you soon for a reading.
Jackie,
I am so sorry about your Dad.
May god grant you His strength during this most difficult time.
He is at peace and now with God.
Does it get any better than that?
Don’t be afraid to cry.
It clears the soul.
Hey beautiful woman…sending you lots of love and hugs. You have been through grief before and it is hard as you know…but somehow knowing our loved ones are at peace with God is a comfort. I often think of those who have no idea of this and wonder how they survive. It is the only thing that comforted me when I became a widow at 50…I am so grateful for my faith every day. I am also grateful for the work I do and for you who started me along that path and helped me in so many ways. You my dear friend are a light for so many of us and have taught us all so much…by being your true self……..your dad was so proud of the person you are I am sure. So many are caught up in the BS and I pray for them…..they will come along in their own time as we all have…when I look back I am sure I was frustrating to you at times..and certainly to myself…..I am grateful to have grown in all ways and I will continue to grow and learn. It is sad that heartbreak does make us set priorities or acknowledge them….Now for myself after many changes in my life…what helps me when I am confused about what is going on…what I focus on is …GOD WILL SHOW US THE WAY….praying and journaling really help me a lot. Thanks for all you have taught me…I am so grateful for you in my life. God Bless….You are a beautiful light in our world…Love Di